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Is
Homeschooling Right For You?
The
decision of whether or not to homeschool takes many
forms in this, the first of a series on the subject.
As
a new mother, there are many new concerns in my life.
Some of these are how will I keep my baby safe, how will
I be able to teach her all that is good, and how can I
keep her away from negative influences as much as
possible throughout the most formative and vulnerable
times of her life? How can I maximize the time that I
will be able to be with her and share my life with her?
After considerable pondering, I knew that the only
answer was to homeschool.
Even though it at first seemed to be an almost hopeless
task of finding information and resources, just by
asking around, I have found that there are many groups
and organizations that are available for support. One
can visit the local library to consult homeschooling
guides that are written by experienced parents, or one
can try the local bookstore. I bought two books that
were very useful. The Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling,
by Debra Bell, published by Thomas Nelson, Inc., &
Homeschooling for Dummies, by Jennifer Kaufeld, and
published by Hungry Minds, Inc., offer valuable
insights, educational resources, guidance in how to
choose curriculum, prepare for costs of homeschooling
and much more. I also asked other homeschoolers for
information as to what material they used, how they
handled field trips, or whether they had tutors for some
subjects. Most are more than happy to give you help.
From a legal point of view, one might at first feel
intimidated. However, I have found that the legal
requirements in many states are not as tough as one
might think. For example, in North Carolina the
requirements are minor with a minimum interference from
the state. Parents may choose the curriculum, the time
and place of schooling, as long as the child receives
nine months of schooling per year and is taught reading,
writing and arithmetic, to put it basically.
I found I could read the
states requirements at a website that is helpful, quite
nicely organized, and easy to understand:
www.nhen.org/leginfo/state_list.html. This site has
a list of states; choose the state you live in and you
will be able to link to the laws pertaining to your
state. This site also shows the law as it is actually
written, so you can see for yourself what it says.
In closing I ask what better way is there than to teach
our children ourselves, to impart the knowledge of our
family traditions and beliefs to our offspring? Is there
any better opportunity to grow with your children? How
often do we hear about parents not being able to spend
time with their children and before you know it, they
are grown and moving out of the home? Why should we, as
parents, not be responsible for the development and
growth of our own children? I, for one, do not want to
leave the education of my child solely to that of a
stranger, who may or may not share the same convictions
and beliefs that I hold to.
-Sara Pearson/ Creedmoor-
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