What? Why would any mom
compare herself to a Wolf Spider? Wolf Spiders are ugly
and hairy. Plus, they are spooky! But, there is
something that all mothers of toddlers have in common
with the Wolf Spider. It is the clinging of their
children. Thats right, when your little one is clinging
onto you, whining, not allowing you to walk that is what
baby Wolf Spiders are doing to their mommies!
Wolf Spiders, if you are
interested, lay eggs. Then, when the egg hatches with
many little baby spiders, they jump onto their mother,
and cling for dear life. The mother wolf spider carries
around her babies until they are old enough to care for
themselves.
And, that is what human
mothers do, too. It is a good thing that we carry
around our children. It is how we nurture and protect
them. They cling to us when they feel insecure. They
know that we are a safe haven.
Next time when your
three-year old is clinging onto you for dear life,
remember the Wolf Spider and be thankful that you have
one redeeming quality in relation to her!
Wendy Komancheck is a
stay-at-home mom with her two sons, ages 3 and 20
months. Besides mothering, she is a private tutor and
freelance business writer with many articles published
in the Lancaster County daily newspapers.
http://www.writers.net/writers/wendywriter